From: Nina Ditta Moore
Finding the right words can be so difficult to come by at a time like this. Having known Mark for 30 plus years, I truly wanted to speak at the memorial, but I knew that the words just wouldn’t come out of my mouth. Mark was always there for me through life’s ups and downs. He was like a Brother to me, and could be counted upon to offer honest and straightforward advice. He once told me “It’s how you ride the downs that matter most in life; the ups are just easy. Life will continue to have ups and downs. You just keep going, no matter what life throws your way.” Over the span of my career, each of my jobs presented several different challenges. I could always count on Mark; he would always offer advice from his unorthodox life experience and unique world view. I miss him and will never forget his strength & commitment to those he held closest; those in his inner circle which he was fearlessly protective. I miss his booming voice with that accent and his roaring laughter.
Mark was a very handy guy…well ok, no… He was not exactly handy : / BUT he always gave every project his best effort and got the job done. I admired his tenacity. Whether it was fixing leaky gutters, building sub floors, wallpapering, painting, fixing cars…. LOL….. Well at least he always knew the phone number of “the guy” who could get the job done :)
Mark was as generous as he was personable. Every Christmas he & Angie would silently sponsor needy families, ones who had an especially tough year. They would stealthily learn the ages & needs of the family and send Christmas gifts, always anonymously, always including the “hot” Christmas toy of the year. Sorry Mark…. I couldn’t resist sharing this secret with everyone.
What was no secret to anyone was that Mark loved his sons; they were very important to him and brought him much joy. He loved being Mr. Mom & able to chaperone field trips and coach the sports teams. It was very important to him that he get to be there for them. He had lost his father at such a young age. He lived through some tough times, but he was/is an example of a true survivor.
My wish for all family and friends who miss Mark Bray; immense strength during this difficult down in life and remember “It’s how you ride the downs that matter most in life, the ups are just easy. You just keep going, no matter what life throws your way”.