I taught myself some basic Japanese when I was a nerdy teenager in 1959.
I met a very famous and exciting Japanese Journalist, the Hedda Hopper of Japan. Her name was Kazuko Komori, but in Japan, they reversed the name to Komori Kazuko. It was in Manhattan and I was an autograph hound and meeting thousands of movie, theater, and singing stars was my weekend hobby. Kazuko was really impressed with me because I also interviewed celebrities, so I was the American teenage version of herself.
Kazuko took me to Madame Moto Saito's Restaurant but instead of eating in the restaurant, we ate in Saito's apartment. She put a plate of food in front of me that looked like watermelon half-moon candies. I went to take one, and Mrs. Saito slapped my hand and said, "No use fork!" I laughed, "I thought it was watermelon candy."
So Mrs. Saito and Kazuko laughed too. I said, "I have been eating with chopsticks since I was four years old." (I was fifteen years old.) So Mrs. Saito gave me chopsticks and the two ladies were delighted to see my expertise with chopsticks. I talked about various Japanese theater arts and mentioned seeing the (all-female dance troupe) amazing Takarazuka dancers in person. That was pretty jaw-dropping to them.
A few years later I met John F. Kennedy's translator and introduced Masao Kunihiro to Madame Saito. I did a tribute here on AncientFaces to Masao Kunihiro who ended up becoming a very famous author and professor.
Madame Saito's Restaurant was the Restaurant of Choice for all distinguished Japanese visitors for the next 28 years.