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Ray Mather 1932 - 1995

Elbert Ray Mather of Saint Louis, Saint Louis County, MO was born on May 29, 1932 at Hammond, Lake, Indiana, USA, and died at age 62 years old on March 28, 1995 in St. Louis. Elbert Mather was buried at Springdale Cemetery in Springdale, Cedar County, Iowa.
Elbert Ray Mather
Saint Louis, Saint Louis County, MO 63119
May 29, 1932
Hammond, Lake, Indiana, USA
March 28, 1995
St. Louis, Missouri, United States
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Elbert Ray Mather's History: 1932 - 1995

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  • Introduction

    Elbert Ray Mather's parents were Merlin Eugene Mather (1901 - 1994) and Vera Eloise Young (1904 - 1984). Both parents were born in Iowa. He had one brother, Keith Victor Mather (1929 - 1983). In the 1940 federal census, Ray, which was the name he used his entire life, was age 7 and living with his parents, Merlin, who was 39 at the time, and Eloise, who was 36, in Munster, Indiana. Ray was in the 1st grade. Also in the household was brother Keith, age 11, who was in the 4th grade. Father Merlin said that he was an inspector in insurance. Ray later graduated from Earlham College and worked for a small theatrical production for many years. He went on to work as a theatre manager at Fontbonne College from 1968 until 1981. See a 1986 poem written by Ray Mather at Remember me? by Ray Mather. After that, he worked as the building manager of the Jewish Federation but illness forced him to retire in 1993. Ray was survived by two nephews, Jon and David. See Ray's obituary at Ray Mather: Obituary
  • 05/29
    1932

    Birthday

    May 29, 1932
    Birthdate
    Hammond, Lake, Indiana, USA
    Birthplace
  • Ethnicity & Family History

    Ray was Caucasian and a United States Citizen. His mother and father were born in Iowa.
  • Nationality & Locations

    Ray was born in Hammond Lake, Indiana and lived in Munster, Indiana; Elgin Illinois; as well as St. Louis, Missouri. He died in St. Louis at the age of 62 and was buried in Springdale Cemetery in Springdale, Cedar County, Iowa. As a boy, his family lived in Maine, Cook, Illinois with his parents and older brother Keith.
  • Early Life & Education

    Ray attended Elgin High School where he was part of the Elgin High School Bowling team. He graduated from Earlham College and was involved in numerous campus clubs and organizations with fellow Earlham College Classmates including Masquers , Boards Club, and Mask and Mantle Officers .
  • Professional Career

    He was a theatre manager at Fontbonne College and then building manager at the Jewish Federation. Illness forced him to retire in 1993.
  • Personal Life & Family

    There is no record of Ray having ever married. He worked in the theater for most of his life and was survived by two nephews.
  • 03/28
    1995

    Death

    March 28, 1995
    Death date
    Unknown
    Cause of death
    St. Louis, Missouri United States
    Death location
  • Gravesite & Burial

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    Funeral date
    Springdale Cemetery in Springdale, Cedar County, Iowa
    Burial location
  • Obituary

    Mather, Ray Died on March 28, 1995. Was 62 years old. Is survived by 2 nephews Jon and David of Downer Grove, Illinois. The body was cremated and a graveside service will be held at the Friends Cemetery in Springdale, Iowa on Sunday April 16, 1995 at 2pm where his cremated remains will be interred. Mr. Mather graduated from Earlham College, worked in a small theatrical production for many years. Came to St. Louis in 1968 where he was the theatre manager at Fontbonne College until 1981. He was employed after that as building manager at the Jewish Federation until his illness in 1993. Retired with disability, resided in Shrewsbury for the past 25 years. Donations may be made to AIDS Research. Family assisted by Valhalla Chapel. - Published in the St. Louis Post-Dispatch (St. Louis Missouri), on Sunday April 9 1995.
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9 Memories, Stories & Photos about Elbert

Remember me? by Ray Mather
Remember Me?
I am the boy who sought friendship;
The boy you turned away.
I the boy who asked you
If I too might play.
I the face at the window
When your party was inside.
I the lonely figure
Who walked away and cried.
I the one who hung around,
A punchbag for your games.
Someone you could kick and beat,
Someone to call names.
But how strange is the change
After time has hurried by,
Four years have passed since then,
Now I’m not so quick to cry.
I’m bigger and I’m stronger,
I’ve grown a foot in height.
Suddenly I’M popular
And YOU’RE left out the light.
I could, if I wanted,
Be so unkind to you.
I would only have to say
And the other boys would do.
But the memory of my pain
Holds back the revenge I’d planned
And instead I feel much stronger
By offering you my hand.

- 1986, Ray Mather
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1952 Earlham College Classmates
1952 Earlham College Classmates
Ray and friends featured in the 1952 Earlham College yearbook.
Sitting down: Frank Robertson
Standing left to right: Ray Mather, Phil Shore, Jow Carter, Dick Hardin.
Date & Place: at Earlham College 801 W Nat'l Rd, in Richmond, Wayne County, Indiana 47374, United States
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Elgin High School Bowling
Elgin High School Bowling
From the 1950 Elgin High School yearbook, Ray and other classmates on a bowling team/club.
Front Row left to right: Ray Mather, Ron Ball, Don Kruger
Back Row left to right: Pete Kovacs, Clarence Pfortmiller, Dick Green, Wendell Schmidtke
Date & Place: at Elgin High School 1200 Maroon Dr, in Elgin, Cook County, Illinois 60120, United States
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Boards Club
Boards Club
Ray and other Earlham College in the Boards Club from the 1953 Yearbook.
Front left to right: Peg Gardner, Phyl Underwood, Connie Weil, Chris Baldwin.
Back left to right: Vera Freivogel, Mally Rothenberg, Ellen Adler, Jinx Lippincott, Dave Miars, Phil Shore, Ray Mather, Dave Coahram, Barbara Pearson, Barbara Henshaw.
In rear: Art Little.
Date & Place: at Earlham College 801 W Nat'l Rd, in Richmond, Wayne County, Indiana 47374, United States
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Masquers
Masquers
From the 1953 Earlham Yearbook, the Masquers Club
Front left to right: Bob Morrow, Barbara Clapp, Cindy Mantell, Audrey Heitmann, Mary Lou Henley.
Second row left to right: Ray Mather, Nancy Kuhn, Vicky Neave, Marilyn Henderson, Martha Chawner.
Third Row left to right: Mary Whitaker, Sam Lewis, Dick Gambrell, Fe Wundt, Ruth Pitman, Ellen Adler.
Date & Place: at Earlham College 801 W Nat'l Rd, in Richmond, Wayne County, Indiana 47374, United States
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Earlham College Classmates
Earlham College Classmates
Ray and other classmates featured in the 1953 yearbook.
Front left to right: Jean Clark, Dick Stadelman, Bob Elliott, Keith Kendall, Lee Fisher
Back left to right: Lewis Eldridge, Ray Mather, Phil Shore.
Date & Place: at Earlham College 801 W Nat'l Rd, in Richmond, Wayne County, Indiana 47374, United States
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