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Robert E Steffey 1960 - 2002

Robert Edward Steffey of New Jersey United States was born on September 16, 1960 in Elizabeth, and was the father of Jaclyn Steffey Dover. Robert Steffey died at age 41 years old on July 5, 2002 in Trenton, and was buried at cremated.
Robert Edward Steffey
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New Jersey United States
September 16, 1960
Elizabeth, New Jersey, United States
July 5, 2002
Trenton, New Jersey, United States
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  • Introduction

    Robert Edward Steffey was the son of the late Edward R. and Shirley (Smelson) Steffey and he was survived by a sister and brother-in-law, Sandra and Nick Frank of Piscataway, New Jersey. Robert Steffey was married and the parent of Jaclyn Steffey Dover. He was also the parent of another daughter, whose name is unknown. Although he appeared in two documentaries about his criminal life and his struggle with drug addiction, he tried to keep his wife and daughters out of the limelight. Robert, also known as Rob, was a career criminal. In 1989, along with his buddies, Deliris and Freddy, he was followed by a cinematographer for a year as they shoplifted and lived their - often dreary - lives. Then, in 1998, HBO showed part two of the documentary, following the three almost a decade later. By that time, all three were trying to turn their lives around. Robert was active in AA and NA by then, but he didn't survive much longer. By 2002, at the age of 41, Robert died from a drug overdose. For a synopsis of the documentary, also available on Youtube, see Life of Crime: 1984 - 2020 IMDb. While the cinematographer, Jon Alpert, had thought that his 1998 documentary was the end of the series, he was wrong. He decided to make a third installment when he was contacted by Deliris Vasquez. At the time, she was drug free and asked that he tell her story after four years of being drug free. Then she relapsed, and it killed her. See the 2021 update at HBO’s Life of Crime: 1984-2020. You can see some trivia about his life at Trivia about Robert Steffey from IMDb website. Also read a glowing review of the documentary from the website ICS - International Cinephile Society - at Review: Life of Crime 19844 - 2020 (Jon Alpert).
  • 09/16
    1960

    Birthday

    September 16, 1960
    Birthdate
    Elizabeth, New Jersey United States
    Birthplace
  • Ethnicity & Family History

    Robert was Caucasian. On his paternal side, he was the third generation born in New Jersey.
  • Nationality & Locations

    Born in Elizabeth, New Jersey, Robert E Steffey spent his entire life in New Jersey, residing in different places throughout the state. A native, he came from a family that had lived in the state for at least three generations. He died in Trenton, New Jersey at the age of 41 and was cremated.
  • Early Life & Education

    There are no known records about Robert's educational background.
  • Military Service

    Robert didn't serve in the United States military.
  • Professional Career

    A career criminal and addict, Robert appeared in two documentaries on HBO, chronicling his daily life. Filmed in 1989 and 1998, the documentaries were critically acclaimed and as a result, Robert is also credited as an actor. The documentaries are available on YouTube, on the channel "Trailer Party" as of November 2021.
  • Personal Life & Family

    Robert was married and had two daughters. The name of his wife and one daughter is unknown, the other daughter was Jaclyn Steffey. He kept his "private life, private" so while his criminal life and drug activities were documented, little is known about his wife and one daughter, including their names. He was also a drug addict who, towards the end of his life, was active in Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics Anonymous. He joined them in an effort to turn his life around. Unfortunately, as is often the case, Robert lapsed and eventually died of an overdose, as did the two other people who were featured in the critically acclaimed and popular documentary about the trio.
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    2002

    Death

    July 5, 2002
    Death date
    drug overdose
    Cause of death
    Trenton, New Jersey United States
    Death location
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Life Of Crime 1984-2020, an HBO original documentary, chronicles the lives of Freddie, Rob, and Deliris, and the struggles they face on the streets of Newark, New Jersey catalyzed by the ever growing drug epidemic.
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Review: Life of Crime 19844 - 2020 (Jon Alpert)
“Life of Crime 1984-2020 should be a required watch for teenagers before they start being subjected to that pain, but also for the politicians that are in the position to change the grind that causes it.”

“I don’t want my life to be like this.”

Drug addiction is a lifelong disease from which there never truly is recovery. Watching Life of Crime 1984-2020, the latest (and no doubt longest gestating) work of award-winning and Oscar nominated investigative journalist and documentary maker Jon Alpert, leaves no room for other conclusions. Chronicling almost four decades in the lives of three people in the underbelly of Newark, New Jersey (although focusing mostly on the first 20-odd years), the film is an incredibly intimate and confronting look at the pitfalls of heroin and other substance abuse and the lives it impacts, not only of the addicts themselves but also those surrounding them. Including footage from two earlier documentaries on the same subject, 1989’s One Year in a Life of Crime and 1998’s Life of Crime 2, this final instalment brings closure to the stories of Deliris Vasquez, Robert Steffey, and Freddie Rodriguez in a sobering and searing manner, ending on a gut punch that will break most audiences.

Robert, Freddie, and Deliris are three friends from a working-class background in the Newark of the mid-’80s. In line with the zeitgeist of the era, in which making money was seen as the biggest goal in life, but which also was the era in which growing financial inequality between the working classes and the rich upper crust they were taught to look up to was kickstarted, their lives revolve around a constant hustle. Drugs shape their decisions, as they need the almighty dollar to feed their habit, a habit started to drown out the misery. Robert and Freddie are partners in crime, shoplifting in broad daylight and with jaw-dropping insolence, Alpert’s camera in close proximity. Deliris has to turn to the world’s oldest profession to make her dough. Over the course of the film and the following decades, the bravura of their early 20s makes way for an ever-increasing despair and despondency as their lives become an endless cyclical journey through prison, rehab, parole meetings, and periods of hope, without exception dashed when the lure of the needle sooner or later pulls them back down.

Building up a genuine friendship over the years with the people he follows, nothing is off limits when it comes to Alpert’s access to their lives, which means we’re privy to some of the most intimate (and in some cases gruesome) moments: several scenes of somebody shooting up, Deliris dealing with a regular john, heart-wrenching conversations between a mother and her six-year-old child, the aftermath of a high. A lot of this is painful to watch, especially with the two kids of Robert and Deliris around. As the years go by, we see the three slide further down after every brief period of cleaning themselves up. The film necessarily focuses on Deliris towards the end, because the two men died before Alpert started filming again, which goes to show that for many addicts there are two possible outcomes in life: jail, or death.

Spanning such a long period gives insight into societal changes over time, yet also into things that never change. Some changes are frivolous, such as hairstyles and clothes; others are more impactful, such as Freddie contracting AIDS during the epidemic in the late ’80s and early ’90s. What doesn’t change though is the lack of a support system for addicts. Well-meaning parole officers do what they can to treat symptoms, but the film shows that it is far too easy to fall back after a period of being clean. This problem is compounded by American drug laws, where possession and/or failing a drug test leads to another stint in jail, time and time again. Drug addiction is a lifelong disease, but it’s not one America seems to want to cure.

Life of Crime 1984-2020 isn’t an easy watch, and some images will be seared into your mind. Images of Robert lying down in the middle of the street, completely strung out on heroin and barely able to move, or his decomposing corpse found in his own home after an overdose. These images are shocking, and they show Alpert’s background as a war zone reporter with a history that goes as far back as documenting the aftermath of the Vietnam War in 1977. But this time the war zone is on home soil and as the film makes clear, like in Vietnam this war is a losing one. Other scenes are heartbreaking, most notably the scene between Deliris and her two children, daughter Kiki and son Chimo. The conversations with Kiki, out of necessity a child wise beyond her age, and the way she confronts her mother are soul shattering. The one glimmer of hope to be extracted from Life of Crime 1984-2020 is how the end of the film shows that a child’s love endures, and that even growing up around addiction doesn’t necessarily lead to repeating the same mistakes. But these are small victories in a losing war in which people at the bottom of society look to narcotics as a way to ease the pain that a grinding, money-focused society inflicts upon them. Life of Crime 1984-2020 should be a required watch for teenagers before they start being subjected to that pain, but also for the politicians that are in the position to change the grind that causes it.

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Trivia about Robert Steffey from IMDb website
- He was active in AA and NA.

- Born in Elizabeth, he lived in Trenton three years.

- Has a daughter, Jaclyn Steffey.

- Son of the late Edward R. and Shirley Smelson Steffey, he is survived by a sister and brother-in-law, Sandra and Nick Frank of Piscataway; and two daughters.

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HBO’s Life of Crime: 1984-2020
Doc Almost Had a Very Different Ending
Warning: HBO’s Life of Crime: 1984-2020 spoilers follow.

“Real life gave us the ending that if I knew was coming in advance, I never would have picked up the camera,” director Jon Alpert told MovieMaker of his HBO documentary Life of Crime: 1984-2020. The new ripped-from-real-life documentary is the third of three Life of Crime documentaries Alpert has directed, following 1989’s One Year in A Life of Crime and 1998’s Life of Crime 2. The third documentary completes Alpert’s 36-year study into the lives of Robert Steffey, Freddie Rodriguez, and Deliris Vasquez — three Newark, New Jersey residents whose battle with heroin addictions trap them in a world of petty crime that has them constantly yo-yo-ing between jail and the streets.

Alpert swore he was done with the project for good after Life of Crime 2. But an unexpected call from Deliris Vasquez was enough to convince Alpert — and HBO — to make a third documentary. “The thing that forced me to pick the project up again was I got a phone call one day, and the person says, ‘Hi, Jon, this is Deliris.’ I said, ‘No, it’s not.’ I said, ‘Everybody, me included, knows that you’re dead. When I saw Deliris last, she weighed 60 pounds and she was an inch away from death,” Alpert said.

“She goes, ‘Jon. Is your dog named Boo Boo?’ I said, ‘Yes.’ ‘Is your daughter named Tommy?’ ‘Yes.’ Did you use to bring your dog and daughter to Newark when you’re filming?’ I said, ‘Yes. You’re Deliris.’ And she says, ‘Yes, and not only am I Deliris, but I’m drug-free now, for’ — I don’t remember the number, like four years, five months and six days — ‘and I want you to come here with your camera and I want you to tell that story.'”

Over the next 10 years, Alpert logged many more hours filming Deliris as she became a local hero, dedicating her life to helping others kick their heroin addictions just as she had. But in 2020 during the height of the pandemic, the third Life of Crime documentary took a shocking turn that no one expected.

“It had a really different ending, okay? I talked to Mayor Baraka of Newark, and we agreed that Deliris was a war hero, and we honor our war heroes. ‘Let’s declare Deliris day in Newark and let’s have a parade for her and march her with all her friends down Broad Street and give her the keys to the city in a proclamation.’ And that was going to be the end of the film,” Alpert said.

Then, after 13 years clean, Deliris relapsed and died of a heroin overdose.

In the end, each of the documentary’s main subjects — Freddie, Robert, and Deliris — all met the same heartbreaking fate. But instead of glossing over the most painful moments, Alpert chose to show explicit images including active drug use and each of the subjects’ deceased bodies — one of which was badly decomposed — in the documentary. “Rob, Freddie, and Deliris very much accepted that this film was the one solidly constructive element in their lives — that this was the one thing that they were doing that wasn’t destructive. It was the one thing they were doing where they could proudly point, ‘I’m helping people. ‘So they were on board. But there are people who will find these images really disturbing,” Alpert said. “I basically want to take everybody by their shoulders and I want to force them to watch that.”

Life of Crime: 1984-2020 begins streaming on HBO and HBO Max on Tuesday, Nov. 30.

- By Margeaux Sippell, November 30, 2021
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Life of Crime: 1984 - 2020 IMDb
"Robert Steffey earned notoriety in 1989 from his role in "One Year in a Life of Crime Part (1989) (TV)". The documentary, produced by often-lauded New York filmmaker and video- journalist Jon Alpert, followed a trio of career criminals, Rob, Mike and Freddy. In gritty, cinema verite style, Alpert filmed every aspect of the men's lives for 12 months, from their daily jaunts to the Jersey suburbs to pull shoplifting gigs, to the sometimes wretched gloom of their domestic lives. When the final package debuted on the cable channel in 1989, it was nominated for several industry awards. Alpert kept in contact with the men, and in 1998, HBO broadcast Part II of the documentary, which dealt with the men trying to reform their lives. It won Alpert his 11th Emmy award. Robert was survived by two daughters, Jaclyn Steffey, and the other unknown. His daughter Jaclyn is now 22 years old."

- An HBO Documentary (2021). From IMDb
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